There will always a first time to everything...
First Love...
First Kiss...
First Job ...
First Car...
First House ...
First Decision ....

Without that "First Time" , there will never a "Next Time"!! To have that First time in life, we need to be courageous, motivated and dare to take any opportunities that given to us. 

For me, today is my "First time" holding a microphone giving an hour talk in front of a small crowd of people. Well done to me!! i cant wait for the "next opportunity" of doing the same thing again. I never really been given any opportunities of talking in a crowd before and if i happen to have that opportunity, i tend to say "NO" ... "No, i am not qualified for that" "No, i am not ready" "No, other people is better" ... come on!! what a pathetic me (Before). It really shows my lack of confident level, low self esteem, excessive timidity, and scared of making mistake, afraid of people perception on me and that's when the word "NO" comes out from the tip of my mouth. (I tell you...there are more people acting the way i do!! i know it!!)

Now, i am glad that i am no longer being that "Girl" ... Today the new Me is more courageous, More cheerful, more brave, More adventurous, more confident, having more faith in herself, Value life more, and importantly more and more bright & positives. ~People learn from the past~

**One thing that make me worry now is the more cheerful & positive i become, the more positive my views on Obesity** My crave for Junk Food is high & i am aware that exercising once a week is impossible to achieve my Ideal Weight!! OMG!!

 ...so here my pictures of knowledge sharing with a little audience. 

The moment i stand in front of them i assume they know nothing about the topic that i am going to share. That assumption makes me share more openly and talk more confidently. I dont care much on 'their' perception on me but i focus myself more on the subject that i am going to share and one thing i realize, i bring the group to show participation by asking them a bonus / simple question.

Doesn't matter if the question is too easy for them to answers, importantly they shows interest and participation on what i talk. i like it when they laugh or even make some noises. it shows they are not boring with me.,. if the room is too silence, i will call someone names or point anyone from the group to give response!!

So i am happy for my achievement today and i look forward the next "knowledge sharing" again.. How i wish to have the courage like these people ....

http://www.biography.com/people/oprah-winfrey-9534419...Oprah Winfrey my fav. Talk Show Host.

http://youtu.be/jCiBQu1TAgY?list=PLhcLsDbLQCeq5t7Zsn6JxCKNu4NKn3qh3 Another speaker that inspired me ...

http://youtu.be/Lp7E973zozc My Favourite Motivational Speaker Mel Robbins 

Mel Robbins Video sharing is the best and very inspiring ... I want to have her sense of humor and her idea's of motivating & touches other people life's. 

" How are you? FINE?  the thing that you want, you fine to not have it!!" ~Stop saying Fine~

" You are not Fine, You're Fantastic ... you have life changing ideas for a reason"

"All day long you have idea that can change your life, that can change the world, that can change the way you feel" 

Enjoy Watching the video people...

Till then

~m3@~

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There are a lot of benefits working with the government .... one of it was A fix amount of salary and fix date of salary day. Today just happened to be Salary day for government workers. I am not excluded from today excitement . (^_^)

When talking about salary day ... sure Mr.($_$) is always in our mind. Fix $$ means we need to budget every single cent for spending and saving. Every month we tend to spend exceeding our salary which mean in a simple words we spend more than what we get. This is what people always do ... I am doing the same. haha

Believe me no one in this world is clean from debt. RMXXXX.XX is credited to our bank account but after being deduct to the debt ... RMXXXX.XX became RmXXX ( whats more for spending on our daily expenses?). It is easy for us to budget our $$ in papers but to put it into action, needs some discipline and commitment.

As for me, I am trying hard to save at least 10% from my salary to ASB (which i believe gives a high returns in the future). 5% provided for paying Insurance and the balanced for others expenses such as paying personal Loan, Cars, and others utilities. So ... my point is, whats the use of this fix salary if we could not put a side a little for our future sake? I should remind you and myself as well to not to forget the "SAVING" word.

Do you think RMxxxx.xx that we (government workers) get every month is enough..?? The answered is NEVER ENOUGH. Whatever amount Our salary is, if we fail to stick to what have we budgets, it will never enough for our living.

Remember to save 10% out of our salary for the future...(^_^) Happy salary day!!

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Guess what i successfully making a decision accompanying this old Friend of mine going back "Kampung". Seriously, i never plan on this before but as usual Flexible in life sometimes rewards a great opportunity and experience...do u agree with me?

Most of the time, we tend to stick for one Plan without any others alternative right!! this happened to the old me but then when we old enough (matured) to think, we can decide whether or not the things we are doing is good or not. (agree again don't you?) ... its up to you to make a decision anyway. haha.

Here am i now at Kampung Magatang having a funky Friday night and waiting for a Wonderful fun and enjoyable Saturday morning tomorrow. hehe

well, guess thats all for now. Just letting u guys knows that i am flexible in doing anything to my life .... same goes to you out there ....learn to be a little more flexible worth you a lot.

....Flexible is my Priority in lives ....

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hi people ... its been months since my last post isn't? well just assume that i am handling my lives so hard till no ideas come cross my little box of mind for blogging. LOL. Last week i attained this talk about Melelia Product and the speakers was Datin st.Stella herself. i may not know her personally but from my line of knowledge she is one of the User and also the founder of Melelia itself and from the way she gives the talk on stage, i can say she was a very capable and a great speaker. (even tough she give her talk in chinese : luckyly i can still understand her) there are a few words that sink deep into my mind but then 1 that i remember the most was about fairness. She Said "we human must not look for fairness because the world is not fair essentially but if we look forward for balance then we will live happily and free from emotional problem". I believe that these sentences able to makes my mind actively thinking and process those words into info ---->> that's why i could still recall each words...LoL. when i refresh back our daily lives, we tend to say "ohh this is not right!!" ... "that's not fair!!" and "this not fair!!" ... hey come on ... let us supplant the "fair" words into "balance". Just admit the fact of opportunity cost always occurred in our lives. so do you think this opportunity Cost isn't fair? Its all about our choice... of course based on our needs not desire. Lets put it together ... whatsoever is the circumstances .... please don't look for fairness but instead we comes to the solution of balances because we Human tend to complained than resolved one situation. umm Mmm!! Fair Vs Bslance --->> I can't give u some example on this because i don't understand either what she (the Speaker)means by "balance" to ... its up to us to decide what's good and what's wrong in our daily lives. well then ... gotta go ... just want to gives some update to my blog anyway!! have a great day.

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Hello people, early this morning i received a massage saying " Happy First Friday of the year 2011" and i end up with a smile and chuckle for a second ... and of course i didn't reply back. This beautiful funny message makes my curiosity of the "Friday the 13th" arose and i had done some reading about the freaky "myths" about the urban legend unlucky Friday the 13th and how people being paranoid and having fear of the number 13. Most of the article i read stipulated that people in U.K believe the old superstition of Friday the 13th. They believe the risk of hospital admission as a result of a transport accident may be increased on that day and research had been conduct to revealed the truth about this urban legand Friday 13th. What do you people think about it? I mean doesn't the uncertainty of Risk in Life happen everyday? if it do not happen to us... may be there are some other people in other country that encounter with the uncertainty eg: accident, death, hospital admission etc. Risk occurs in daily basis for it doesn’t choose or select what date or even time. so why should we afraid of the Friday the 13? A part of that, there are also some belief about the Friday Night..or in Malay we call it "Malam Jumaat". this are other thing that doesn't make any sense for they believe all the evil and bad Spirit (Ghost) are freed on that night and this happen every Friday night. come on ... do you really believe on that? Just count how many weeks (Friday night) we have in a year? Does this make sense to you? For me myself, i do believe in other entities that live together surround us but i never seen one or withness the existance of these creature... do they look ugly or vise versa? I had no idea. Well people, today is eventually the first Friday of the Year 2011 and be this day brings more luck and opportunity through the year. Cheersss people and Happy Friday.

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For the knowledged of people out there...( i mean my blogs reader ) I loves reading a lot. Motivation....romance...thriller...( my favorite ) and any kind of books that may invite my interest. (emm!!). Basically, when choosing what types of book i wanted to read a few conditions and consideration will be stipulated. First and foremost, comes whats FONT is being used, then the Size of the font , colour of the paper ( i prefer brown coloured ) the thickness of the book , the design of the book cover , and of course...when i satisfied with all that, i will then jump to the synopsis of the stories...hehe..( it is a bit troublesome you know ) but hey!! come on ... for sure we wanted the best for whatever that eventually end up with MR. MONEY ($_$) right..!!~~ eheh!! I recently are reading "Practising the power of NOW" wrote by Mr. Eckhart Tolle ( in fact i haven't finished reading it ) but i wanted to jot down and share with you one pages about THE PAST CANNOT SURVIVE IN THE PRESENCE... I will just retypes it in here and up to you to read it silently or read it loud...( Importantly i still consider it as *reading* )..so this is what the pages are all about : ~~ " Whatever you need to know about the unconscious past in you, the challeges of the present will bring it out. If you delve ( search or rummage on s/thing) into the past, it will become a bottomless pit : There is always more. You may think that you need more time to understand the past or become free of it, in other words, that the future will eventually free you of the past. This is a delusion. Only the present can free you of the past. More time cannot free you of time. Accept the power of now. That is the key. The power of Now is none other than the power of your presence, your consciousness liberated from thought forms.. So deal with the past on the level of the present. The more attention you give to the past, the more you energize it, and the more likely you are to make a "self" out of it. Don't misunderstand: Attention is essential, but not to the past as past. Give attention to the present; give attention to your behaviour, to your reaction, moods, thoughts, emotions, fears, and desires as they occur in the present. There's the past in you. If you can present enough to watch all those things, not critically or analytically but non judgmentally, then you are dealing with the past and dissolving it through the power of your present" P/s: you have to buy this book. It really worth reading it. hehe!! till then....(^____^)

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