Congratz ...Congratz!! My dear Best Friend's Alice. What to say ... I am "jelous" on your engagement but i am not "ENVY" it at all. Hahaha. You look so Happy and Excited so here I am Happy together for you too ... What's a "Best friend" should be for if Not sharing the happiness of yours. Right???? uhhh ~> remembering that mine is still too far to go.

Here ... on Sarturday 04 August 2012 was my Best Friend Alice Big Day. Tell you what, she was all excited, nervous, happy, shy and completely going insane since 2 days before her real engagement day. But Everything was under control and she finally relieves from her anxiety of worrying about her Important Day. The excitement that Lydia and i show, helped her a lot in coping her inquietude. My origin plan to have a sleepover at Alice's house cancelled because of some changes in plan. So i'll be staying at Lydia's for 2 night and i think it will be alright with Alice. 

Due to some miscommunication,  i arrived at Alice's 10 minute before 10.30am and Hell!! I am SOoo late for Alice Makeover. She doesn't say much but i know deep inside her shows some anger. There is not time for an explanation and i asked her to be really really quick to change her clothes and be ready for the make up. Unfortunately Stephan's car was "pop" outside before i even started my task. Calm...calm...everything will be okay!. Few minutes later, Stephan's other friend's and relative's also showing up. Alice starting to be Panic plus her sister's making so much annoying assumption that could drive The three of us ( Alice, Lydia & i) going crazy.

I finished Alice make up real quick and asked for Lydia help on Her hair side. "Whatever happens, happened" .. That was some sort of solution for our unwell prepared situation. LOL laugh Out Loud. Alice was now too late showing herself out for the ceremony. everyone was in the living room waiting for her ... the heads of the village continued saying out about the rules and stipulated on the agreement between Alice & Stephan's family without Alice beside. Felt Pity & Guilt for her!! But its okay since all the rules will be on paper. She can still read and ask to any confusion. Gosh!!

Time for signing the agreement came then only we finished completely with Alice. Oppss!! Everyone laughing when Alice make a slow run and "zappp" sit besides Stephen. Its wasn't funny at all ... they only making fun of her for sure. Luckily Alice was so easy going type and everyone was also amazed by her natural, simple and humble character. Stephen was so Lucky to OWNed Her hahaha.

Now ... showing time .... i present to you some picture of the Engagement ceremony....
 

Moment to remember ... signing the engagement agreement and exchanging ring.

Exchanging Ring ... giving engagement present and "Ang Pau"

Family & Friend of Stephen N Alice

Some snap ... Moment to remember between Stephen & Alice

Sweet!!

The Bless of God's be always with both you Alice & Stephen. The end.

~m3@~

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While goggling on "ways to ... " the words "How to get Over Your First Love" and all stuffs about broken relationship appeared on my computer screen ... it is not that i intentionally looking for it but then i can't let my finger from not to click one of link on How To Get Over Your First Love / Ex.

http://www.wikihow.com/Get-Over-Your-First-Love 

This link is very useful and informative only for those who ( girl / boy) still can not let go on their past relationship and may be also a good site for those who was in counseling / psychology line of career. Well let me share with you on my own experienced.

I do encountered with this so called "Broken Heart"  feeling and seriously i tell you IT IS DAMN HURT like the ground is not where you belongs and everything surrounds you is HELL. Your LOGIC are out and Your DESIRE to DIE are strong. WEAK, ANGER, PAIN, TEARS,LONELY will become your very best friend on that moments. Everything you do is not right and you prefer to lay on your bed with your pillows on your face Crying ... crying ... and crying and Sometimes You just want to go for some hidden places to SCREAM and SCREAM like no one care for you. Foods in front of you, you tend to imagine on His Damn Smiling Face and you have no appetite on touching it. Every minutes pass is so damn long to you and your mind can't keep on thinking of HIM, Missing Him and everything is HIM HIM and HIM and wanted your relationship with him to be BACK. Obviously, your body will slowly and slowly loss on weight. Such situation will last long until you recover ... say may be months or more worse years ...  (This is so true) ... What more for the FIRST LOVE. (~#~). AGAIN??? [I am imagining on my past Relationship]

Okay Okay!! Stop the CRAPs ... Wow ... wow ... wow ... come on guys don't be so emotional. For All the brokenhearted readers ... don't frown!! OWH ... This is NOT how the Stories ended .... You See the truth is ~~~>>

           [ No one, No body, not a single one of us will RUN from this natural Feeling.]

I mean whats the point on Hurting your self for something stupid. Just admit it that all human kind will ALL end up facing the same ISSUES. its normal in life. IF there is no BROKEN HEART so we will never learn and experienced the HURT itself. Take it into consideration before you wasting your pearl tears on SOMEONE.

People ... i know it hard to LET GO but believe me ... When you PRAY harder and BELIEVE GOD is there to hear you. You will heal. You will not forget but you will Accept the fact that ITS OVER. Of course the MEMORIES still there ... just keep that memories as your JOURNEY on EARTH.

I never exactly  know how I managed to ACCEPT the reality that "HE IS NOT MINE" anymore but i do believe on PRAYER. Make sure when you pray ... pray for The person (Your ex) happiness in life and with time you will let go for there must be reasons why He is not Yours. CORRECT?

Chill Up.... Be positive ... and if you still can't assure yourself on what to do to get over your ex/1st love than the link i show earlier will somehow help you.

~Me@~

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Did i mention about the "Responsibility" that were given to me on my last post? OoO ... Hello!!! About the Engagement Banner? (striking both hands up to chest) well frankly saying ... i am not the one who originally own the design but then, most of the idea ... i mean on the wordings, the fonst, the graphic ... most of them comes from my own feelings. hihi. (@_@) at least i do help in term of comments and suggestion!! . And the rest of the editing via Mic. Photoshop, i leave it to my friend friend's. hehe And thanks to Erry (the one who will bring this to the printer & also the editor)  for the Half finished Banner ... my BFF Alice loved it so much. 

Well let me show you the process till to the final decision ...

What do you think? If any of you reader doen't say OKAY to this then "something Wrong" with you. hahaha.

This was the half finished banner that i am talking about & when it comes to Alice bare eyes, she said "Yes!! i love it Mea ... make it to the printer" .. Owh i was like "uhh!! emm!! okay!!" 

Without Alice knowledge, i actually comments on the title fonts and the Name side. ( Responsibilities are on me so she have no right to know what this and that ... am i right? ). I don't think the tittle fonts suit my expectation ... the font should be more ... like curvy or more interesting ... or may be the size need to be more bigger or whatever ... but i suggest to him (my friend friend's that font types need to be change to a more clear one & also the couple names need to be more big. Everything needs to be resize and i didn't comment much on the background design coz this design look far far more better than the last one ....

Here ... i show you the old Banner Design .....

"Two Heart's, One Love" was the origin theme that i select but when the design being sent to me, i was like " something is wrong !" then i google around for "engagement party banner" images and all stuff about banner ... sky blue banner and so on. Then the words "All About When Two people Fell In Love" ... those words was so sweet and i slowly repeat it again and again. I was amaze by those romantic sweet words. Without any doubt i said ... "this is what i am looking for" ... look again to the half finish banner ... You will felt the same way ... MAYBE!!

Owh about this design, Neither Alice nor i like it. The design is not live ... i mean it was like those fairytales and fantacies story. well what??? we are living in reality and we are the real Human being not cartoon. 

And for Alice, she doesn't quite comfortable with the RING images at the end of the banner ... she said it was like "not matured' some sort of ideas. hihi .... Cool down...this is only pre-design banner ... we still can do adjustments and changes to it. (@_@). Some more, she asked for correction on the couple name's. She said normally Man name come 1st than women and its true somehow. hihi. Yes Boss ... changes will be done later.

What i do was ... i googled for some blue background images and let Alice do the selection. Then when i get the answers from her, i told Erry to change everything including the ring image and the banner itself. 

My wrong in the 1st place, because i am not familliar with the banner size so i gave Erry the wrong size (2 x 5 = bunting size). I supposed to ask for (5 x 2 = Banner size). But no worries ... now i knows and the result .....

browse back to the half finished design ... that was the result after this and that ... ( Erry was good in meeting my expectation) hihi. Like i said earlier ... the final banner, the one which will be printed is still "Question Mark ?????" but i hope everything will be okay. 

~Me@~

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