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Wonderment about Life
Posted by Mea L. Antaim
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Friday, May 15, 2015
Sometimes wonderment in life will actually open up a new insight ....
Test : What Do You Really Need? :- In case you want to take the test, click on the test!
1.Feel Responsible for everything (Check!!)
2. Often Feel Guilty (Check - sometimes)
3.Often willing to forgo your own needs to meet the approval of others (Subconsciously yes!)
4. successes buoy you; failures sink your sense of self-worth (I confuse)
5.Denying yourself the chance to build on your strengths ( maybe)
6. Spend more time worrying ( sometimes yes)
Remedies : Give yourself time and space to explore your interest without an agenda.
**I can't believe that i am actually believing what those test has shown me. I wonder now how am i going to make all those six negatives statement into a more positives one.**
** Do i need to find balance in my life and stop worrying about life?**
**I May want to explore those six worst critic in my Journeying Through PRH blog and do some analysis on it soon**
~m3@~
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Its Friday!! after Spending my morning at church with the children, I decided to sit at Old Town White Coffee Café to relax myself with coffee and a book at hands. Well, I'd been reading EAT,PRAY,LOVE - Elizabeth Gilbert, no 1 New York times bestseller book. There is a movie casted out from this book ( which I have not watch yet ). General idea about this book is how she enjoy EATING in Italy, Found GOD in India and Found LOVE in Bali. I found it a bit hard to really enjoy the book since its uses a lot of difficult English words but in the meantime I find myself learning new words and actually enjoying reading the book. I have the urge to know what actually happens to her during her "a year" vacation to these three continents of the world. Well I might want to share about it when I finished reading it.
Meanwhile, i really wonder how a person really knows what he/she wanted in life. Like the writer, she just quit her job and start doing things that she wanted in life without hesitation!! i just wish i could have that wisdom to really know what i want most in my life ... and this wonderment about true life purposes is not new to me since i have been looking and searching for it years before and i tell you what . the more i search the more i confused and the more i punished my self of thinking too much.
Although i know i did shared few things about Towards Life Fulfillments in my last Blog Entries i admitted at times i lost my own life compass in Life. Like today i have this urge to google on what do i really want in life - hoping that Mr. Google can really help me with my question and expect to at least get something from any web sites. What really happens was, google let me answers some psychology test of what do i really need and i answered it with sincerity and honesty ... the answers was taking me to my self worst critic!! And i feel like i wanted to share about it in my blog which i am now!! Frankly saying i don't usually buy any of that phycology test result when i am denying and trying to hide from the real fact (when the result really hits me).
** I know i am doing it for fun but deep in my heart i wanted to explore more on it!!
Test : What Do You Really Need? :- In case you want to take the test, click on the test!
Your own worst critic
With the weight of the world on your shoulders, you feel responsible for everything, and often feel guilty. Wearing your heart on your sleeve, you are often willing to forgo your own needs to meet the approval of others. As far as you are concerned, you are only as good as your last accomplishment. Successes buoy you; failures sink your sense of self-worth. Your own worst critic, you rarely lose yourself in an activity because you are preoccupied by how you are performing. If victory is not certain you may give up before seeing it through, denying yourself the chance to build on your strengths. While you may try harder than most, you also spend more time worrying, taking on more and more activities that you don’t really want to do, but accept because you feel you should. Accept there are limits to what you can do. Give yourself time and space to explore your interests without an agenda.
1.Feel Responsible for everything (Check!!)
2. Often Feel Guilty (Check - sometimes)
3.Often willing to forgo your own needs to meet the approval of others (Subconsciously yes!)
4. successes buoy you; failures sink your sense of self-worth (I confuse)
5.Denying yourself the chance to build on your strengths ( maybe)
6. Spend more time worrying ( sometimes yes)
Remedies : Give yourself time and space to explore your interest without an agenda.
**I can't believe that i am actually believing what those test has shown me. I wonder now how am i going to make all those six negatives statement into a more positives one.**
** Do i need to find balance in my life and stop worrying about life?**
**I May want to explore those six worst critic in my Journeying Through PRH blog and do some analysis on it soon**
~m3@~
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